The “Good” Evil People in Your Life

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I’m not sure how to say this nicely.  So I’ll just say it.  Your parents probably screwed you up.  Big time.  And if your parents didn’t, probably some close family friends, early teachers, or coaches did.

Why do I believe this?

Because eight out of ten people are seriously confused, live without a congruent philosophy, and continually self-sabotage their own happiness, success and prosperity.  This isn’t natural human behavior.  It is behavior caused by negative programming and limiting beliefs, which were instilled in them before their eighth birthday.

For most of you, I could spend 30 minutes with you, ask less then ten questions – and then be able to pinpoint when and how you were brainwashed with evil, insidious beliefs that have, or still are, messing up your life.

Most likely, by a good person, who wanted nothing but the best for you.

There are a lot of good people, who have done evil things for you.  You’ve probably already figured out some of them.  And you need to figure out who the others are.  (And if you need more help on that, read this book.  Or listen to this podcast.)

Not to get even with those people, confront them, or punish them.  (Because that would just be you sliding back into victim-hood.)  Don’t waste a precious second of your life trying to assign blame.  Please understand that the people who caused you hurt did so for one of two reasons:

  • They were hurting themselves and unknowingly perpetuating the pain cycle.

Or…

  • They unwittingly gave you horrendous advice, because they didn’t realize the negative memes and beliefs they were infected with. They actually wanted the best for you.

So you don’t try to figure out how you got negative programming to discover your tormentors.  You do it because you need to know what limiting beliefs you have that are holding you back or actually sabotaging your results.  Because once you know what those beliefs are, you can eviscerate them, and replace them with ones that empower you.

Which is where we’ll pick up on the next post.  Until then, please share your thoughts below.

-RG

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